Office Fantasies

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For Annabelle, it’s a must that all her boyfriends are into CFNM. ‘It’s one of the top requirements,’ she says. Annabelle raises the topic fairly early on: ‘I wouldn’t blurt it out right at the outset, but I’d cover it at the sex chat stage, if I thought the relationship was going somewhere. I’d ask if they had any fetishes or interests – most respond with something – then I’d mention CFNM.” I’m sure it’s not the best idea in the world to start sleeping with your boss. But I couldn’t remember ever having such a strong physical and mental connection with someone, and I trusted him, he was going to act responsibly for both of us, if something bad happened and things weren’t great, he could help me get a similar job somewhere else. I didn’t want to say no to something so intoxicating for a job I cared very little about. While we need to be mindful of our partners boundaries and respect their right to say no, there’s no harm in broaching the subject with a sexual partner. He adds that, like the first event he went to, it’s the norm for the women to be dressed in everyday clothes, and he’s only been to one event where the women were dressed as dominatrixes.

This is undoubtedly what feeds our office fantasies: more than sleeping with this or that colleague, we basically want to desire.Other forfeits include making the naked man stand by a window with the curtains open. ‘I once saw a guy get caught by five passersby – he was somewhat embarrassed,’ says Annabelle. As a single woman, Annabelle has ‘played’ with the men at these events, ‘as in I’ve got them erect and kept them erect, but not given a hand-job to completion. I like watching them complete.’ When Annabelle is in a relationship, she’ll take her partner to the event, and the only ‘playing’ will be with her partner – who will be off-limits to other women at the event.

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More reserved cities on the list were London, with 34% of people never trying out a sexual fantasy in real life, followed by Brighton (32%) and Edinburgh (31%). The sexual fantasy about the colleague – a figure of intermediate proximity, both known and unknown – feels like breaking free from the company, which in some aspects is like a “total institution”. The American sociologist Ervin Goffman describes the latter as “a place of residence and work where a large number of like-situated individuals, cut off from the wider society for an appreciable period of time, together lead an enclosed, formally administered round of life” ( Asylums, 1961). The sexual fantasy about the colleague – figure of intermediate proximity, both known and unknown – appears as an escape from the company’ We all have fantasies. Some of them are highly romantic, like being swept away by Prince Harry to join the Royal Family in England. Others are darker, more risqué. We don’t always like to admit to having these fantasies, women especially, but that doesn’t mean that we don’t have them. Would you feel comfortable telling your friends that you fantasize about being handcuffed to a bed post while someone coats your body in molasses? You probably never found the right time to mention it. Perhaps we wouldn’t find our fantasies so unusual if we realized how common they actually are.Fantasy also allows us to project ourselves into an imaginary reality where we could experience something else, and even dream of being someone different. In the fantasy of flirting or sexual intercourse with the colleague also conceals the desire to play out a new and unexpected scenario, the curiosity to play a new part in the social game of seduction. “All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players”, says the melancholic Jaques in the introduction to Shakespeare’s play As You Like It (1599). Basically, we don’t dream of this or that colleague, but rather, of being someone else. According to Annabelle, her events tend to start with a striptease from the men. ‘A performance is a must – if they just take their clothes off, what’s the point?’ She says. ‘Forfeits for the worst will be determined by us ladies. It could be a spanking or we might make them melt an ice cube in their bum – it’s entertaining to see them squirm.’