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I know if I let myself succumb to my own desires, I get pulled into a spiralling circling of thoughts and actions that led me to make decisions that placed my wife’s health and my health in danger. But I wanted to try sex with strangers, one-night stands, threesomes… I’ve always had a fantasy of including more people in our playtime. Partner-sharing was high on my list of unrealized kinks. Like David, I think you are playing with fire. Someone - maybe all three of you - will get hurt here. Badly hurt. Marriage is all about commitment and love and sex and companionship. Are you sure of your love for your wife and her love for you? Are you devoted and loyal to each other? Are you sure there won’t be any negative emotions resulting from this? My wife told me one night that it had been over a year since she had had sex.My wife offer me to her and we did the same as you. so i under stand what you said about liking it i did to. all up i think we had sex about 8 times then one night the 3 of us agreed that her self confedance was better and that we should return to normal.
Guess what? He texted me the next day about the book & says he’d be willing to take me fishing. & the rest is history. So, here is my story about how my husband and I embarked on a partner-sharing journey. It hasn’t been the smoothest, but it was more than worth it in the end. Who would’ve thought that opening up our sex life to other people would make us even more turned on for each other? I’ve Become Hooked On Being Shared (We’ve Tried It Again) When I first got with my partner we were at it all of the time, trying new moves and weren’t afraid of anything! Have you ever looked at another couple and wondered, what if...? Partner Swap delves into the lives of lovers who dare to take the next step...
The one with the surprise four-way…
If my relationship with my husband had not been solid at the time, it would not have worked and would have weakened our marriage, neither one of us would have suggested or agreed to it. Later, when he slept, I returned to my husband, who to my surprise was still awake and eagerly embraced me. I attempted to apologise for my behavior, but my husband told me he was overjoyed to hear my cries of pleasure and to know that his request of me was not a burden. His own lovemaking seemed more forceful and passionate than usual. He caressed me and kissed me over and over, telling me he was pleased. I was quite aghast when he kissed down my body, as I had no used any barrier and was quite full our dear friend's quite abundant ejaculant, but if I thought this would dissuade my husband, I was wrong. My husband and I are quite young and I am a little more experienced than he is. At his work, there are two older men who lost their wives to cancer. These were slow illnesses and devastating to both men. Before we were set to meet our guy, my husband and I went out for drinks. We were both a little nervous – me more than him – and the alcohol helped calm me down and get me even a little turned on. My husband was joking around and making me excited, saying over and over how he couldn’t wait to see how the guy would take me. That helped a lot, knowing that my life partner was there for me during this whole process.
When I tell you my relations were of a sordid nature, I mean to say I became involved sexually with a group of five men who used me as a sex slave. I had come under the spell of a college man and submitted to him out of a schoolgirl crush. At a party we attended, he made me dress in a rather short dress and I was forbidden to wear undergarments. I was taken by my boyfriend into the garden, where he bound me and placed a blindfold over my eyes. I did find it most exciting. I could hear the party nearby and the thought we might be seen by others seemed so forbidden.
The one who got high…
First things first....this is my first post....I am not trolling for anything. This is an honest account. Like it or don't, it is okay with me.
So, I ask you to examine what your real motives are here. For one thing, you may get pregnant - which will be very complicated if you don't know who the father is. For another, you're endangering the friendship between these two men - friendship that ultimately they may both value over you. And you're not in any sense living the life that your husband expected when he married you. But to be absolutely, positively clear: you don’t “owe” him this. If you think you might want to, well, then you should think about it, talk about it, and maybe one day—if it feels right, if you meet the right very special guest star, if you can honestly say you're doing this because you want to and not just because he wanted you to—then do it. Maybe. If you want to. In the end, we have a few regular guys we see now. All of them are older than us because we’ve found that we react well to the confidence and experience older men bring to the table. Gets us hot all over. What Does The Future Bring? I just froze. I didn’t know what to do,” Eliza recalls. “He’s just shooting the breeze with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend is trying to just play it off and is holding a conversation like I’m not even there. So I just stayed down there, perfectly still, waiting for him to go. He talks for what seems like is eternity (probably only two minutes). Then I hear him say, ‘See ya later… you too Eliza.’ I thought I was going to die of embarrassment.”Since this time, both men have been invited to our home any number of times. I am always happy to be my husband’s gift and feel their grateful love for me. One very memorable night, my husband insisted the pair sleep instead in our bed with me, while my husband slept in the guest room. This had not happened since my year as an exchange student.
Just as a last thought, many men like the thought of their wife and another guy (i know i do) so he may be the same and he may like the idea of you and him. either way you need to talk to him. as for the more men only you know what you like It’s not easy when you essentially want to have sex with someone else but still remain in your long-term loving relationship. Most people won’t understand that it’s not about cheating. It’s not about your partner not being enough. I’m not proud of these experiences, some were good and fun, some I put myself into danger, and all in all I carry a lot of shame. But your comfort and safety must be centered, as the kids say. This is a big ask on his part and your physical, emotional, and sexual safety are a make-or-break part of the conversation. If he's making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe... that's a bad sign. — Dan There was no delicate way to extricate myself from his arms, and some thirty minutes later, he began to kiss me most tenderly, but was also clearly aroused and in need of me. I do not know how long our second coupling was, but again I found myself swept up and responded to him most ardently.That this was his fantasy may be the only reason you began to think about it, OWED, but it doesn't follow that his fantasy is the only reason you wound up doing it. Sometimes our partners' fantasies become our own. (And going there—meeting a partner's sexual needs—can make the person doing the needs-meeting feel "more satisfied and committed to their relationship," according to science.) It got to the point where I was thinking about other men and potential threesomes almost every night. I was far from sagging or unattractive in any way, but I still worried. Would another man want to have sex with me? Would he find me ugly? Too awkward? I was never a social butterfly; I never went out to clubs, I was never good at flirting… How was I supposed to entice another guy to have sex with me while my husband was in the same room with us? It wasn’t long before the initial apprehension melted away. The wine (on top of the previous drinks) made me mellow, and I was getting giggly and touchy-feely with the guy. He didn’t mind one bit, and my husband was more than happy to let me crawl into the guy’s lap and finally kiss him. This Was The Best Sex Of My Life
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